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# Enviado el jueves 15 de octubre de 2009 10:38

The me nobody knows

The me nobody knows
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# Enviado el sábado 12 de septiembre de 2009 17:33

Way Down in the Hole

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# Enviado el jueves 10 de septiembre de 2009 18:19

sister

sister
My heart is breaking for my sister. Her husband of 5 years told her in January that he doesn't have the same feelings for her anymore. At that time they had a 2 month old baby! (They also have a 2 year old.) My sister says she did NOT see this coming. She thought things were going "well" with them. Since then, he has pretty much detached himself from the family in so many ways. They haven't been intimate in months, he maybe pecks her on the cheek now and then, and they just don't talk. They are seeing a therapist, but he continues to say he's not happy. He told his therapist that he doesn't want to have any regrets when he gets older - that he doesn't want to look back and realize he missed out on something "better". Everyone has asked him if he's having an affair and he says no, but he does talk about a female co-worker all the time. She happens to be having marriage problems, too. My sister no longer trusts them together. We are a close-knit family - they live just a mile from our home. We have family dinners with my parents almost every week. I knew they didn't have a "perfect" marriage, but I never saw this coming. I guess I am struggling with how a father can walk out on his 2 young children. He says he is unhappy because of little quirks my sister has always had - not being real organized, not balancing the checkbook each day, not closing the cabinet doors (!), etc. He is practically begging her to kick him out, but she doesn't want to. She fears he will then tell everyone it was all her fault because she kicked HIM out. She'd rather he leave on his own. Their marriage counselor suggested he see his own therapist on the side, so his first appt. is next week. He has a lot of "baggage" - his own father abused his mother, then remarried 5 times. He never had a father-figure in his life. He definitely suffers from self-esteem issues. I'm not sure what I expect anyone to say here. I'm just trying to be there for my sister and know what the right thing to say is. I have talked twice to her husband about this and he has excuses for everything. I have decided I can't talk to him anymore about it. This is all so hard!
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# Enviado el miércoles 09 de septiembre de 2009 17:57

Il fera tous les bars de la terre

Paroles :

Il fera tous les bars de la terre
Il ira où on ne le connaît pas
Tanguera sur les fuseaux horaires
Fera voyager sa gueule de bois.
Il boira comme on part à la guerre
Sans être sûr qu'on en reviendra.
Il retrouvera partout un frère
A Shangaï, Séville ou Luanda.

Il ira, ira, ira, ira
Hasta que el cuerpo aguante.

Il ne connaîtra pas le silence :
Autour de lui, la nuit hurlera.
Il tombera en pensant qu'il danse
Et que tant que tout tourne, tout va.
Il n'aura ni remords ni regrets
Ni personne quelque part pour l'attendre
Rien que le bonheur pris sur le fait
Sans lendemain pour le lui reprendre.

Il ira, ira, ira, ira
Hasta que el cuerpo aguante.

Il fera tous les bars de la terre
Prendra tous les verres qu'on lui tendra
Roulera sur les deux hémisphères
Va savoir où il se réveillera.
Il promènera sur lui le parfum
De quelqu'un dont ne lui reviendra
Ni la voix, ni le regard, ni rien
Et dans le premier bar entrera.

Il ira, ira, ira, ira
Hasta que el cuerpo aguante
Hasta que el cuerpo aguante
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# Enviado el jueves 03 de septiembre de 2009 18:47